PLEASE DONT JUDGE… URGENT ADVICE PREGNANT ?
I no i keep asking the question but i need advice!!
let me explain…
I am now 6 weeks 3 days pregnant via early scan!
i stopped taking my pill about middle of jan because me and my boyfriend wanted to try for a baby!
but at the beg of feb we split up stupidly and i slept with a friend of mine unprotected… the first time i slept with him i took my mini pill and doubled it up for a week after, then about 5th feb we had sex again but this time i took the morning after pill…. COULD I BE PREGNANT BY HIM?
now i got back with my boyfriend on the 10th and i came on a period on the 7th feb i think it was because of starting my pill and taking the after pill as well though! it was still a heavy period though, is this still the same? i came back of my pill about 15th feb
I came of my period on 14th feb and i took a clear blue digi test on 3rd march and it said i had conceived 1-2 weeks ago which would be fine as then it would b my boyfriends…
i went for a scan last sat and it was i was 5 weeks 4 days gest age!!! i spoke to my midwife and she said the gest age is from conception so it is my boyfriends!
but i just need to no for sure!! i feel sick at the thought of this and i cant enjoy it~”~” me and my boyfriend have wanted this for agies and i feel like i have ruined it!!!
my midwife has told me over n over that it cant be the other mans because if it was then i would of been 7 weeks 4 days and the scan would of showed allot more than the sac?
ADVICE PLEASE
and dont be horrible i love my boyfriend more than ever! xxx
THANK YOU BOTH SO MUCH, THAT HAS HELPED ME ALLOT! I FEEL MORE CONFIDENT NOW! xxx
April 15th, 2010 at 9:18 pm
I have no doubt you love your boyfriend, and no one has the right to judge you. Congratulations on your pregnancy! Very exciting times ahead
Now, pregnancy is always dated from the first day of your last period (which is why you would be 5 weeks pregnant, it doesn’t mean you actually conceived 5 weeks ago) so I am going to say with confidence that it is your boyfriend’s baby. Your midwife is 100% correct when she says that if it were the other man’s baby, you would see more than just the sac at nearly 8 weeks pregnant. Plus, it seems to me that you had a period in between sleeping with the other person and getting back with your boyfriend. All the best for a happy, healthy pregnancy!
xx
April 15th, 2010 at 9:46 pm
ive done the same thing we split for 3 month an i slept with a old Friend an took the pill.
im 12 weeks now and am not sure who’s it is
form what you have told me theres nothing to worry about doctors and nurses go from the first day of your last period.
i also took one of the clear blue tests but i was unlucky as i was all ready 6 weeks with the added 2
so i was 4 weekconceiveded so that was no help for me.
by what ive heard your fine its your boyfriends im 99.9% sure on it and would rather be in your situation then mine.
good luck!
April 15th, 2010 at 11:00 pm
The only way to know for sure is to get a DNA test. I believe they can do one while you’re still pregnant, but it’s safer to take one after the baby’s born.
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I’m not judging you…sounds as though you’re dealing with a huge problem, but we all make mistakes. At least you know what NOT to do next time, if there is one. Good luck with your pregnancy
April 16th, 2010 at 1:44 am
Well i think you need to talk to a doctor about a paternity test, i’m not sure how they work but that way you will know for sure.
April 16th, 2010 at 1:46 am
‘{it was still a heavy period though, is this still the same? i came back of my pill about 15th feb’ }
i would say with a heavy period you couldnt still be pregnant to him.
and the mid wife is right, dont worry it may just be your guilty conscience playing up..
but i really dont think it is the other mans.
good luck x
April 16th, 2010 at 4:44 am
explain everything to your bf!!! and if he loves you maybe hell understand every little thing you said!!!
>>>i think its your bf who got you pregnant
April 16th, 2010 at 5:46 am
First off…CONGRATS ^_^ Second…listen to your midwife if she says its your boyfriends cuz of the dates then it probably is and by reading this I’m pretty sure it is as well. Good Luck and Enjoy your pregnancy =] once again CONGRATS!!